When it comes to elevating your happiness and attracting love and romance this Summer, it’s important to remember these 5 tips:

 

1. Get Yourself into the Best Shape Possible 

 

Getting in shape is not only important physically, especially if you want to feel good about your body and attract someone fit. Take it to another level and put yourself in the best shape not only physically, but emotionally and socially as well.

 

2. Find Your Why

 

Determine why do you want a partner. Is it for companionship on the weekends only? Do you want a partner in crime to have fun with and share your life and home or just your bed? Maybe you’re looking for someone who will be a great parent like you. Whatever it is, do some soul searching as to why you want someone in your life and to what extent. 

 

3.  Be Interesting

 

Learn how to ask engaging questions. Talk about your hobbies with passion and animation. Share your thoughts on your favorite things. Nothing is more magnetic than the energy a person gives off when they are talking with passion.

 

4.  Be Confident

 

Showing up stressed out and grumpy isn’t going to land you the love of your life. You have to be attractive to attract love. Take time to bring yourself into a positive space before the event. Schedule a massage, go to the spa, get your hair done, do some Yoga, play a sport with a friend. Do something that makes you happy and connected to the real you.

 

5. Embrace the suck & Raise Your Standards

 

Sometimes dating sucks, but if you learn how to attach a good mental feeling toward finding a partner you will enjoy the process a little more. The best way to do this is to learn that the awkwardness of meeting someone new doesn’t last forever. Learn to associate these feelings with the happiness you will feel when you get you to where you want to be. 

 

You get what you expect in life especially in dating. Set the bar higher for what you expect from yourself and potential mates. Develop higher standards for self-care, personal development, social skills and emotional intelligence. Most of all have fun in the hunt. Dating can be an adventure and lots of fun if you have the right attitude.